Thursday, June 24, 2010

An Updates..

- Well, I'm on my 8w6d pregnancy :) such a blessing that God trust us this soon to be a (soon to be) parents..
- I'm currently now dealing with morning sickness: massive nausea (tp minus munt*h.. malah jadinya ga enak banget lho karna "ngumpul" terus di perut, rasanya udah kaya ada twister on my tummy *sigh*)..
- No "ngidam2" thingie.. Yah, kepengen2 sesuatu sih ada, tp ga yang nyusahin ko, kita berdua masih tau diri ga mau nyusahin Bapaknya :D
- On my first trimester, I can't/don't ate aylot :( Susah banget masukin makanan2 itu sampe harus (dan memang harus) dipaksa. Kadang denger nama makanannya disebut aja udah eneg. Entah itu sugesti ato apa, yang pasti itu yg gue rasain.
- Oh, I hate the smell of Bakso! You know how I love that food, rite? Now, I can't even smell it :(
- But, I can drank lotsss of milk ;) And ate lotsss of fruits (also when it's juiced). So I still feed my baby-to-be a (hopefully) healthy foods :)
- The hormone? It's sometimes annoying! I cried like a little baby for no reasons. Tagor mah ngerti aja, jadi dia cuman bisa melukin sambil nenangin aja kalo gue udah gitu :) One time, kita lg nonton ANTM 13. Gue sih yg nonton, trus Tagor biasaaa, iseng nutupin tivi-nya pake kaki. Gue kesel se-kesel2nya.. Trus dia pikir gue becanda pas nyuruh kakinyaminggir, dia malah makin menjadi2. Nangislah gue, kejer! Hahahah.. Padahal lg iklan juga saat itu, hoahoahoahaha.. Langsung dia bujuk2, cium2, guenya kesenengan, hihihi..
- My Husband? I can say that he's a super husband! His attention and affections is even beyond what I expected. Dia malah yg lebih paying attention terhadap kondisi gue.. One time kita janjian maksi di plangi, gue pengen Pizza from the Hut (pengennya dr malem, tp karna dia selesai Jujitsu udah late, dia bawain pizza dr Pisa Cafe. Enak, tp gue pengennya Pizza Hut :D). Gue udah sampe, dianya masih di satu tempat yg dia rahasiain. As usual, kesel. Nyampe2, senyum2 sambil ngasih buku2 tentang kehamilan seabrek2, "aku dr gramed bentar beliin ini buat kamu", gitu katanya pas gue udah siap2 mau nyerocos *dia bahkan beli utk dia: Wonderpa, while he doesn't need that book I'm sure he is already one* :) He's just the sweetest! Tiap malem bangun ngambilin minum saat gue kehausan lg, nemenin gue bolak-balik pipis, and all.. I'm so lucky!!
- I think I'm now one of the laziest creature on earth now! At one time, I even slept with my office outfit! Niatnya rebahan, tp keterusan. Jadilah Tagor yg "gantiin" baju gue, while guenya setengah sadar gitu, haha.. Atau, males keramas! Gue itu harus keramas tiap hari, tapi ga di masa2 hamil ini, cuek bgt! Sepertinya kemalasan gue mengalahkan betapa gelinya gue kalo rambut gue lepek. Tp biasanya jadinya siang2 ngabur ke salon sih :D I even malesss bgt dandan! Sekarang ke kantor, no blush-on dan lip gloss, bedak aja udah.. Banyak yg bilang anaknya bakal cowo. Well, apapun itu, gue sih terima2 aja, hehe.. Namanya jg anak pertama.
- My parents, my MIL are great! They cooked what I wanted from them, they took care of me :)
- Oh well, that's it for now.. I'm home now, td sambil bermacet2 ria di Cipulir sm supir. Bapake si baby-to-be mau main basket dulu, gue absen nemenin, bawaannya mending tedorrr.. Please pray for this pregnancy so it will always be okay until the time I will giving birth :)


xoxo

Friday, April 23, 2010

Newlywed :)

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii..............

it's been forever!! hehehehe.. berasa yeee, ada yang baca! :p no, it's me talking to myself.. it's been a while since my last post, and yeah, i miss blogging :)

and now, when i write this post, i am now officially married to the man i love the most, Tagor Ricardo Sibarani :) i am now Mrs. Sibarani br. Turnip, that's how we write it in Batakness.

anyhowwww, we've been married for two weeks! a week doesn't count since we were on our honeymoon (will wrote it later when i have time longer for blogging), a week is this week. it's fun! i tried to prepare Tagor's clothes every morning, his tea and breakfast, we pray before we go to office, we chat aylot and pray before we go to bed, we chat again in the car on our way to office, we ate for like the second times in the middle of the nite, and so many more.. and it's been fun! to do everything together, yes, that's what we've been waiting for :)

we still live with his mom, so far, we manage to cooperate :D it's still on our adjustment between the two of us, and even with his mom. so yeah, we believe we'll survive, hehehe.. for our long term? of course we dream of having our own house, but we're not in a rush, slowly, one step at a time ;)

anyway, it's only for two weeks gitu lhooo!!!! hahahahah..

what else? oh, our wedding days? it was on the 9 - 10 April 2010. 9 April was the Holy Matrimony and the Adat Batak Party. a freakin' whole day long! we were tired but we're beyooooond happy!! will also tell you about the these-and-that-story later on, hehueheuheuh.. (i don't have much time actually rite now :D)

the Reception Night was also memorable.. our friends came to the Langen Palikrama building (the venue), though it was quite far from their place. we appreciated aylot!!! we had so much fun.. we Thank You to Domi, Andre, and Yaya who gave their time to sang for us :) it was lovely.

aaaaaahhh, kalo bisa di ulang, mau banget berada di moment itu lagi, tentu aja dengan pria yang masih sama, hiihhihih..

so, gotta go! heheheh.. i'll leave you with some photos from our Big Day :D





xoxo

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Di tengah kemacetan Jakarta..

- I am craving for java chips frap, sitting on the corner of Starbucks, chatting, giggling, cuddling, laughing with Tagor :( Our kinda quality time..
- I'm starving, but the traffic keeps me away from home for like another 2 hours. Means, don't expect too much to have your supper in a minute, Duma!
- We're suppose to have for what I crave currently on the top of my list, but can not :( Tagor is still on another meeting at .....Bogor *sigh*!
- So here I am, inside the shuttle bus to Bekasi.
- I miss my Future Husband (hey, I like this words! :D Gimana kalo nanti udah ngga pake embel2 future ya? Gotta be, like it aylot!! Haha..). Guess it shown on above lists, eh?
- The bus's AC is not as cold as usual, and it's full. So I'm sweating a bit now -_-"
- I haven't sent Tagor my photo for today (call us cheezy, too abg, but yeah, I sent him my photo thru bbm everyday as he requested so he won't missed my look and my style that day, he said *yg sebenernya gitu2 aja, hehe..*).
- Will do it soon, from home, of course.
- I need more and moreee books!!!
- And the list continued... On another post, for sure! Hehe..


xoxo

Monday, February 15, 2010

Yuhuuuu..

It's been a while, hehe..

How was I'm doing? Yah gitu, sibuk kesana-kemari ngurusin hal2 yang berbau pernikahan. Udah apa aja ya? Banyak! Fitting (me like like like the raw result of my soon-to-be wedding dresses, thankies Reyna!), nyari2 ina-inu, itung2 budget, marguru tiap Sabtu, beli2 souvenir, sepatu si Cantik yang akhirnya bisa gue dapatkan yayyyy (thankies Sayang! :-*), bahan kebaya keluarga yang belum (including adik2 gue, besok cuti mau nyari sm Nyokap dan Tante2 gue), dan masih banyak lg kerepotan2 lainnya.

Repot emang, tapi kita berdua dan juga keluarga kita, seneng2 aja tuh ngejalaninnya :)

Mmmhh, kerjaan juga so far ngga ada masalah, thank God. Pak Boss seneng2 aja sama kerjaan gue (yg paling penting, schedule-nya dia ngga berantakan aja, yg lain2nya juga aman, hehe..), gitu juga dengan Ibu Boss #2 (semacam 'tangan kanannya' Pak Boss yang gue bantu urus schedule-nya dia tok, abis dia kalo urus sendiri suka jd berantakan, gue kesian liatnya jadi one day gue bilang sm dia biar gue bantu dia dengan handle schedule-nya dia, dia seneng, haha).

Keluarga apalagi, supportif bgt!! Kan yang utk acara adat memang itu urusan keluarga, jadi gue dan Tagor emang konsen ngurus untuk resepsi aja. Mama Papa tiap minggu pasti rapat keluarga sm Turnip, bahas si pengundanglah (for those whose Batakness, pasti ngerti bgt nih kenapa nama dan urutan pengundang aja bisa cruisial bgt, hihi..), ngomongin acara Marhusip kita tanggal 27 Feb nantilah, dan acara berikutnya. Untung juga Mama2 kami sering ngurusin kesana-kemari berdua :) Seneng liat orangtua kita bisa akrab gitu.

Yaaahhhhhh, begitulah seputar kehidupan kita sejak awal tahun ini, hehe.. Sampe jarang nonton sekarang, jarang nge-mall, hihi..

Oh iya, Sabtu tgl 20 Feb ini, Sandra yang married!! Jumat lalu ketemuan, sekalian gue bagi2 seragam, sekalian ngomongin utk Sabtu. Happy for Sandra!! Gue emang penutup banget nih :D

Trus Sabtu depannya lagi, tgl 27 Feb, kita akan ngadain Marhusip. Artinya, bisik2. Salah satu rangkaian adat pernikahan Batak. Ini jadi lanjutan Marhori2 Dingding kemaren. Acara yang masih hanya dihadiri dan disaksikan oleh keluarga deket masing2. Tapi ya namanya Batak, mau cuman keluarga deket juga, teteup aja heboh, hahaha..

Rencananya, abis Marhusip itu, karna salah satu sahabat Tagor menikah juga di Bandung malemnya, kita langsung cabut kesana. Udah kebayang duluan capenya, hihi..

Intinya, kita memang cape tapi kita bahagia :) Kalo kata Orangtua dan Pendeta, biar nantinya kita berdua tau gimana susahnya ngurusin pernikahan, jadinya ngga mau lg ngulang, hahaha. Joke orangtua bgt ya, hehe..

There! Pegel juga ngetiknya, hihi..

ps:
"HAPPY -belated- VALENTINE!!
I love my parents and siblings, I love my future husband, I love all my friends..

&

Happy Chinese New Year for all!!


xoxo

Sunday, January 24, 2010

What a weekends!

Ah, another review, hehe..

So, the last two weeks, Tagor and I ngejalanin ritual yang ada di adat Batak, Marhori-hori Dingding. Jadi keluarga Tagor dateng dan secara resmi membicarakan maksud kedatangannya. Mungkin istilah kerennya, gue di lamar, heehehe.. Akyu malu dan senang! :D

Nanti akan ada lagi tahap2 yang harus kita jalanin sebelum hari H. Dan itu scope-nya akan lebih besar lagi dari yang kemaren itu. And we're sooo ready for it! Hehe.. Yah namanya jg part of adat Batak, and we're Batakness (and YES, we're so proud of it), jadi ya kita seneng2 aja ngejalaninnya. (akan) Lebih cape emang, tapi kita ngga masyalah tuh :D Malah pastinya emang kita ngga pengen kehilangan salah satu moment itu.

setelahnya, mulai lagi repot2 ngurusin hal2 yang berbau pernikahan, hehe.. Ke tempat catering, naro bahan gue untuk dijahit, dan pilihan gue jatoh ke Reyna. So I cross my fingers I don't choose the wrong one. Yah namanya biarpun temen, udah tau hasilnya dia ngejahitin kebaya2 pernikahan sahabat2 gue (Widhi and Medhina -and I know Reyna from Medhina), dan udah sering jahit seragam ke dia (dan selalu suka hasilnya), teteup aja ada rasa deg2annya, hehe.. Wajar ya, kita yang mau kawin, pengen hasilnya lebih bagus dari yang biasanya. Tapi gue yakin, dia akan bikin kebaya yang gue mau bagus seperti biasanya.

Trus udah nentuin untuk make-up artist gue juga. Lagi2 referensi dari Medhina (I trust that Cumi aylot, didn't I? Hahaha..). Tapi memang hasil make-upnya ok ko :) Namanya Mas Bayu (is a he, dan gue emang pengennya cowo aja, kayanya lebih nyaman 'ngomel2nya', hehe), tadinya mua-nya LunMay (ok deh) dan biasa di hire majalah2. Used to. Sekarang dia emang fokus make up untuk wedding, dan dari review2nya, gue yakin gue ga salah milih (hopefully).

Sampe2 kita jarang ketemu mall lagi kalo Sabtu Minggu, hihi.. Sampe akhirnya Jumat lalu kita mutusin untuk nyempetin nonton The Spy Next Door. Filnya Jackie Chan, and we loved it! Kangen sama aktingnya dan berantem2nya di yang seru, biarpun ceritanya mah biasa aja..

Dan Jumat kemaren, setelah (lagi2) ngerengek ke Tagor pengen frapuccino, dan pengennya di PIM, jadilah macet2an menembus jalanan, parkir yang penuh, we end up enjoying Peppermint Mocha and Honey Orange Latte (ngga begitu suka ternyata). I know, I know, guess I'm just that lucky having someone who's spoil me aylot and always try his best to fulfill my wishes. I heart Youuuu, baby!!!

Sekarang, we can not wait to see the result of our rings! Hihihi.. Infact, we both really can't wait for the Big Day! :D


xoxo

Friday, January 8, 2010

In my cubicle.

Oh well, I got nothing (yet) to do after lunch as si Pak Boss is having meeting outside the office, and I feel like writing something, hehe..

I just got back from lunch, so full! While actually this morning we just had a breakfast with company, regular event of the year.

Anyway, gue sebenernya antara lagi deg2an nih karna sampe sekarang gue belum nemu penata rias yg sreg utk gue!! Lagi nyari2 bgt nih *muka khawatir*. Belum jasnya Tagor, belum souvenir, belum ina-itu *tiba2 pusing*.. Haaahh, mudah2an makin kesini, gue (kita) ngga makin kelimpungan ya.

Oh iya, Tagor lucu banget! Rabu kemaren seperti biasa kita nge-date. Ngga jadi nonton karna filmnya ngga ada yang menarik. Jadilah kita makan malem aja di Canton Bay. Pulangnya, gue ngajak lewat Metro. Padahal mau beli apa2 jg ngga, tapi ko ya rasanya pengen aja gitu lewat situ, hahaha.. Tiba2 dia nanya "kamu ngga mau liat2 sepatu?", "ngga ah, budgetnya udah ngga ada untuk bulan ini", gue jawab gitu. Trus dia berhenti tiba2 dan bilang "satu puteran jg ngga mau? Carilah kalo ada yg lucu2 yukkk". Damn, gimana gue ngga tergoda coba?! Hauahahauaua.. Akhirnya gue 'menyerah' sambil narik dia "hayo deh se-puteran. Kamu tuh yah nantangin" dengan muke senang :D

Muter2, (untungnya? Tagor sih kayanya yg ngomong gitu dalem hati, haha..) ngga ada yang menarik. Langsung deh cabutttt!

Lucu dan baik benerrrr ya Pacar gue yang sekarang lagi mumet sama kerjaannya ituuu. 'Semangat ya, Sayang.. Kamu kaya gitu karna banyak banget orang yg percaya dan seneng kerjasama sama kamu' :-*

Malem ini berencana mau gabung sebentar di acara bachelorette party temen Tarki, cuman karaokean aja. Abis itu pacaran bentar sama Abang Ganteng, tp ngga lama2, karna besok jam 11 dia dan keluarga intinya (bersama Uda2nya) mau dateng kerumah, hihi.. Ceremony adat-nya dimulai dari besok :)


x.o.x.o

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Review, review :D

Yelllooooowwwwwwwwwwwww!!

First of all, even though it's too late, I would like to wish you 'A Mewwy Cwistmas & Happy New Yeaw'..

Alrighty, let's start the journey!! :p

Pengen banget bercerita mengenai our 2nd anniversary. Udah janjian mau tukeran kado, secara gue seneng nyariin dia sesuatu dan udah tau mau ngasih apa, gue semangat! Hehe.. Kalo Tagor, udah selalu gue sounding. At the end, keluar jg kata2 wajibnya dia "kita cari bareng aja yuk untuk kamu, biar lebih sreg kamunya" di jam makan siang di tanggal 22 itu yg kebetulan bisa kita lewati start from lunch, hahaha..

Malemnya, di tempat tujuan, nemu, bargaining, gue tiba2 mikir2 lagi dan bilang ke Tagor "tapi kalo kamu belum make, ngapain aku punya?". Akhirnya sepakat ditunda aja dulu belinya, instead kita beliin Mama2 kita new handphone sebagai hadiah Hari Ibu (dengan ekspresi yang sangat bikin kita terharu waktu ngasih ke mereka, priceless!!). Dinner, pulang. So normal? Indeed, but we were thankful to spent this two years and going stronger :)

Dua hari kemudian, kita dapet another rejeki!! Tuhan memang baik banget sama kita, He always answer our prayers in an unique way, especially when we least expected it. Intinya, kita berdua merasa sangat2 disayang oleh Tuhan karna semua yg udah kita dapati dan lalui (good or bad).

Baik banget ya Pacar gue ituuu!!

Dan malem tahun baruan keluarga inti Turnip diisi dengan kumpul bersama keluarga besar Sinaga (menggantikan ngga ikut ngumpul di malem Natalnya) untuk Karaokean bareng di Hotel Borobudur. Dan tepat jam 12 teng, ngumpul semua, ngomong masing2, berdoa. Jam 3.30 pagi selesai, pulang, teparrr!! Cuape!

Oh iya, Sabtu lalu kita nonton Sherlock Holmes. Setelah kita stunned oleh Avatar, di awal tahun kita stunned lagi oleh Sherlock Holmes. Keren, keren..

Jadi, ini sekarang gue ngetik dari si bebe baru yang cantik, hihihi.. And if some people said that this gadget makes you 'asik sendiri', ngga kejadian tuh di kita, hihi.. Dari awal kita beli udah committed, kalo lagi berduaan untuk ngga terlalu 'lebay' dan jadi careless towards the couple.

Hope we can always manage it well though :)

Ahh, how I love my life, thank God!!!


x.o.x.o